It so happens that my son does not communicate with me. One day my son decided to introduce me to his girlfriend. She lived far away, so he asked me to leave her at our house. In the morning I set the table, my son opened the door with his girlfriend. She seemed very suspicious to me at the time: -Can I see your passport? – She seemed too young to me, she looked about 15 years old. The girl nearly ran away in tears, and my son followed her.
I was worried about my son, I didn’t want him to do anything to her. In the evening I got a text message: “Mom, I’m staying with my girlfriend. My son was 21 at that time, I didn’t want to give him packages at that age. Somewhere over a week later they came and his girlfriend pointedly held out her passport to my face and it was written that she was 23. From that moment on I became their enemy number one. Then I found out from my acquaintances that my son was going to marry this girl. I wanted to help them with the wedding, but no one would listen to me.
They didn’t invite me to the wedding. When I came I was not welcome. I decided to go to my sister’s, there I was welcomed as the closest person. And then the conversation with my sister began. My sister wanted to send her daughter and her husband and their children to live with me, they wanted to get a job in the city, so they needed my registration. In the afternoon I accidentally overheard my sister talking to my son.
She was pouring dirt on me, saying that I went to witches and made a plot for my son to break up the family, my sister asked my son not to pass anything on to me. In the evening I left. I was disgusted to be with them. I didn’t want to have an argument, to say that I had heard everything. Most of all, I was hurt that my own son believed it; I don’t even think this call was the first one. Because I don’t see why my sister-in-law would resent me. Plus, it’s become clear that my sister has been pouring dirt on me behind my back for a long time now. I do not know what to do, advise me! Maybe I should confront my son and sister?
