My grandmother always told me that before getting married, you need to look carefully at what kind of mother a man has. More precisely, you need to pay attention to the attitude towards women in the man’s family. I somehow did not really listen to my grandmother’s advice, but now I regret it. When I got married, the following picture immediately caught my eye. My mother-in-law is a very kind and sensitive woman. She does everything for her family to make her husband and son feel good. She strokes, washes, cleans and cooks very tasty food.
But it seems that neither the husband nor the son notice all the efforts of the mother-in-law. They take it for granted, they don’t even realize how hard it is. And after the wedding I tried to change my husband’s attitude towards his mother. I talked to him a lot, tried to convince him that she is just a super woman, since she does so much for them. But it was all in vain. And now I began to notice that my husband began to treat me the same way as his mother.
Is the image of his mother and wife the same thing? I do not understand this attitude. I again tried to start a conversation with him on the topic of respect for other people’s work, but he does not want to listen to me. Only my husband miscalculated in something. If the mother never leaves the family, the wife may well do it. Moreover, my husband and I do not have children yet, I have nothing to hold me back. But I am not going to take such a risky step yet. As long as there is hope, I will try to change his mind and save the family.
