The girl has been married for six years. She had a son from her first relationship. She and her boyfriend lived in a civil marriage. But now she is happy in her second marriage, she and her husband have three children, two of which are theirs together. But despite the fact that the girl’s life has improved, her grandmother still continues to pry into her personal life. She gives advice, sometimes necessary, but sometimes it is useless. Of course, she understands that it is a concern and her grandmother loves her, she raised her and brought her up, of course, she has every right to point out. But there is a limit to everything. When the girl lived in a civil marriage, her grandmother always said that her granddaughter was making a mistake, and she did not like the guy. Then her son was born.
Of course, the grandmother was unhappy, but she loved her great-grandson, she just condemned the girl that instead of a diploma and a career, she would now raise a son, and from a man who was worthless in the eyes of her grandmother. When the girl and her boyfriend broke up, the grandmother was happy. And in some magical way he became a nice guy for her, but just not suitable for a girl. Then she got married for the second time. The grandmother was unhappy again, as if she could sacrifice personal pleasures for the sake of her son. But the husband immediately fell in love with the son and treated him as his child. Then the grandmother began to condemn her: “Your husband doesn’t earn enough”.
Then there were personal criticisms of her husband, saying that he smokes a lot, and she, as an exemplary wife, could have weaned him. Then the girl could not restrain herself and threw insulting words at the grandmother: “Why didn’t you wean your grandfather while he was alive?”. The grandmother was offended and did not talk to her granddaughter for several days. The grandmother did not want to understand that the girl is already an adult, that it is not for her to tell how to raise children, cook dinner and dress, and even more so what kind of men to choose. This is her personal choice. It was a shame for the grandmother, because she gave all her life first to her children, then to her grandchildren, and now to her great-grandchildren, but she never lived her own life. The girl did not know what to do with this choice of her grandmother and just had to accept it.
