I never thought it would happen to me. Yesterday my husband had a terrible tantrum.
He is a well-balanced man himself, which is why his tantrums surprised me so much. He never swore in front of me, but this time…
I always thought I was lucky to have a calm husband. We had been married for two months. We dated for three years before that, everything was perfect. He was always attentive to me, did not offend or scold. We almost never fought.
It all lasted until yesterday. He always liked my long hair, he said it “turned him on.” And then yesterday, when he saw my long hair on the back of the couch, he threw a real scandal. I was really surprised.
He started yelling at me, called me a slob, said I could not clean up after myself! I mean, you know, every woman can lose her hair.
He began to reproach me that I do nothing all day, I can’t even clean up after myself, and he works all day!
– If I see that again, go straight to the registry office for divorce! – He told me in anger.
I was stunned. I want his children, have already imagined together our old age, and he told me that because of one hair he will divorce me. I cried and realized that I was crying because of him for the first time. After two months of marriage… What is going to happen now, I can’t leave…
Now he won’t talk to me. I am afraid that if I talk to him, he will use his hands, he is so angry! Is it normal that I am afraid of my own husband, even though we have been together for 3 years and I haven’t noticed anything wrong with him.
I’m afraid to blow-dry my hair, in case it falls apart again. After each time I come home in fear, expecting to see a suitcase with my belongings near the door.
