I want to ask for help from the readers of this site, how I can get out of my life situation and keep my family together.
My husband and I have been married for 17 years, I love him very much and cannot imagine life without him. Our problem is that, over the years I spent a lot of money, I was always short of money and I took loans, later I could not pay them off and all as one got out and my husband found out about them. He was furious, but he repaid the debts and after that we started having problems. He constantly suspects me of spending and is afraid that I will go into debt again, and in general he cannot understand where I spent it. To be honest, I don’t know myself (for stuff, things, groceries, some small things for the house, I just had to buy something).
And recently his mom lost money (this is what she says), and all as one decided that I stole them, but I did not take anything and would never steal. Why? If I needed the money, I would take out a loan again, my husband closed it. Now because of this money our family is on the verge of divorce, my husband wants me to confess and apologize to his mother. And I can’t, I didn’t do it, and if I don’t confess, it means there is no more family, and I am very afraid of losing him. I can’t imagine how I’m going to live without him.
When he first announced his decision, I thought and worried for days and without thinking about my children I decided to commit suicide, but I was bounced. But my husband, instead of understanding me, accused me of an abominable act with which I wanted to get his attention.
We haven’t had s#x for a long time since all the problems started, but I don’t need it now, I just want him back and to be happy, and he leaves home every day and comes back at 3 am and sleeps on the couch. So you have to wonder where he is and with whom.
Help me with advice. How to get it all back and what to do? Even if he is cheating on me, I am ready to forgive it, just to be with him.
