Oh times, oh mores, how things have changed over the years. Especially people have changed, as well as their values, relationship needs, and initial motives. It used to be perfectly normal for a lady, confident in her own beauty and peculiarity, to look for the most advantageous candidate for a husband. Why, she’s the wife, he’s the husband – the husband is obliged to provide for the family and children. It is a direct male role in society. But something has gone wrong in recent years. And voila – welcome to the era of men who do not hesitate to choose their women based on their financial situation, as well as the status of their position.
I personally don’t accept this, not because I’m a woman and it somehow disadvantages me. No, but because it’s against nature. But for men freeloaders such behavior is normal, natural.
Anyway, I have a colleague at work, her name is Susan. Susan is 37 years old, and she can’t get on with her personal life. She gets married men, and then men for one night. In general, she is very complex about it, dreams of a family and has been sitting on dating sites for years. Susan works as a common office manager for a medium salary. Susan has her own one-room apartment, which her grandmother left her, and recently she has taken out a car loan that she will have to pay off over the next ten years.
But it was a necessity – she really had a long commute to work. In short, an ordinary woman. She met a guy online, so she went on a date. He invited her to the most expensive restaurant. Susan bragged to us at work that she had found a businessman.
She came to the restaurant, and in front of her was an ordinary man in trainers, shoes, and a shirt. He didn’t even smell of money. But come on, she could not run away. They went to the restaurant, sat down at the table, ordered food. And then the man pulls out a notebook and begins to give Susan a real interrogation. Do you have an apartment? Do you have a car? What do you do for a living? How much money do you make? Where do you go on vacation? Susan was startled and surprised, her eyes bulging with shock, she almost choked on her seafood pasta, laid it all out for him. He hummed and crossed something out in his notebook, drank a bottle of wine and left, not hesitating to shout “poor girl” in front of the restaurant.
Of course it was Susan, whom the man called a pauper, who paid for the meal. One would have thought that the man was off his rocker, not everyone was at home. But another colleague later told about a similar case. It turns out that men have a collective obsession with rich women. That’s what men are now. So be vigilant!
