One of my friends is only five years away from retirement, and she is still hoping to meet and fall in love with a man. In my opinion, her hopes are in vain.
I can easily argue my position. I am convinced that even after 50 you can meet a man, but what kind of man? In the average portrait of a man will be these strokes: a man will require a mistress who cooks and cleans, and he prefers to spend his time in front of the TV, and it is better that have separate bedrooms.
I am convinced that after 50, a man is looking for a domestic helper, not a beloved woman. But women, on the contrary, even at this age, do not give up the dream of meeting a soul mate, companion and support.
To summarize, closer to retirement a man begins to be interested in how to arrange his life and that is what he needs from the relationship. Women in the same age have not lost their romance and are looking for someone who will support her and breathe new meaning into life.
The goals of the opposite sexes are also becoming opposite.
All the suitors that were my friend, waiting for her to clean, cook, buy groceries. She is waiting for a man to take her on a joint vacation, help the money, in a pinch, ask how her day was.
I think that after 50 years to meet a good and loving man is impossible. You can try, of course, but do not count on the result. To build a life and take on the duties of the housekeeper at this age too do not want, like already enough of all life on itself to pull, bored with age.
You can start an affair at least with someone, the main thing is not to be alone, but such stories do not end happily.
I can’t remember any case when such a late romance had a happy ending, though, maybe such couples do exist.
