I have been married for 15 years, have a little girl, she is 1.8 months. I am at a crossroads, I would be grateful for a second opinion and advice.
Before the baby was born I lived by my husband, for my husband and everything for him. For me he was king and god. He did not want children and lately he did not speak to me with much ceremony. He insulted me and said words that made me cry at night. But I loved, believed, hoped that everything will work out, it is necessary to show wisdom and somewhere to keep silent, to smile, to skip unpleasant words.
I found out that he had a girlfriend while he was on a business trip. There was a conversation. I offered him a divorce, he didn’t want me to, I was glad. Then maternity leave, quarrels, scandals, tantrums, and reproaches: “That’s not how you cook, that’s not how you clean, you look wrong, you’re a bad mother and wife. Said, “I don’t need you, go away, I’ll find a new mother for my child. He became aggressive.
At first I tried very hard to be what he wanted. I made concessions, was the first to make peace, I begged and pleaded. That does not happen, you will say that I am good and he is bad. No, he is not bad, he earns good money, buys groceries, pays the mortgage. I’m completely cold to him, I want to leave. And the child will be without a father. Bitter, resentful.
Is it worth it to stay with my husband for the sake of the child?
