– Check it out. My husband came home from work yesterday, and he was all stiff. I asked him about the wedding, and he looked down at once. He says he’s going to the wedding himself…
– What about you?
– I was speechless. And my husband says to me, “Honey, I got my naked salary in January. “We had a New Year’s Eve celebration that was so bad that my mom couldn’t believe it. So I’ll probably go to the wedding myself. You take care of the baby. Nothing bad will happen. And I still have three days there to live in a hotel and eat something. And, of course, I have to buy a present for the bride and groom,” I told my friend.
We were a young family. We lived in a one-room apartment in Moscow. My mother-in-law decided to give them a place to live. I was on maternity leave. My daughter was almost two years old. But she didn’t rush to work. She had no one to leave her daughter with. The parents-in-law provided an apartment for the couple, so, as they say, thank you for that.
And the wife’s mother took care of herself, plus she worked. The woman immediately told her daughter that if she needed to urgently babysit her granddaughter, she would definitely come. But to let her daughter buy a new dress and dye her hair, no way. As they say themselves gave birth, let them do it.
She was well aware of her mother’s character. By the way, her mother flew abroad every year. In addition, the woman spent all her weekends in beauty salons and massage parlors.
There were no force majeure situations in the family. They solved everything together. When her husband was at home, the girl went about her business and vice versa.
True, the husband was not particularly happy and let his wife go out rarely and for a short time. There were plenty of reasons for his wife to come home quickly.
But then the wedding invitation came. My husband’s younger brother decided to get married. It was necessary to go to another city for three days. The girl went to her mother to ask her to sit with her granddaughter. After all, a wedding is a big deal. Nothing can happen to mom in three days. Moreover, her daughter is a fairly calm girl, not shouting and not capricious over nothing.
Mom refused for a long time, and then with a sigh she took three days off from work. Katya was overjoyed. After all, she was tired of spending two years with a child. At least she’d get some rest at the wedding…
But her rosy dreams came crashing down after her husband’s announcement. It was a big event for the girl. She breastfed her baby for a year without leaving home. Then it turned out that no one wanted to sit with her. And her husband often went to corporate parties, went on business trips. As they say to be free.
Of course, the girl didn’t know his brother very well. She had only seen her fiancée in her photo.
The girl was very upset. But her husband didn’t want to understand her. He thought that everything was right.
– Well, honey, first of all, your mother is not very happy to take her daughter to her. Let her rest a little these days, and you sit. Why make a person uncomfortable. If she doesn’t want to sit, don’t. And you don’t really know my family. What’s the point of this trip for you? Your business is to stay home and take care of the baby. I’m going there and back.
The girl decided no one was going. Why should her husband decide what she should do?
And you, who do you think is right in this situation?
Personally, I think that the girl’s mother and her husband are a little bit insolent. Of course, the grandmother is not obligated to sit with her granddaughter. But you can think not only about yourself but also about his daughter.
And her husband does not understand his wife. She spent so much time with her daughter. She needs to rest, too.
He needs to understand that if he truly loves his wife…
The girl in this situation is very sorry and understandable. She is totally dependent on her husband. She has no one to help her.
It would be interesting to hear what the readers have to say. We hope that the girl will be able to solve the problem and give her husband her opinion on the matter.
Dear girls, remember we have a free country! You can give your opinion, nothing will happen. It’s not like the husband will ask for a divorce if his wife makes him a condition. And even if that happens, it means that these feelings are not sincere. You should respect other people and give them joy.
