I have a close friend, her name is Anna. Anna is 30 years old and she still can not arrange her personal life. I have been married for nine years and Anna has been banging from one man to another all this time. Not to say that she has no choice. She is a very prominent lady and men are interested in her, but not the young and not her age, but usually those who are old enough to be her father.
More than once we sat together in a cafe and men in their 50s and 50s came up to her to get to know her. Even I was shocked. Anna did not want to get acquainted with them, saying that he had nothing to give, this grandfather. If only he had money, but so she did not look like that.
Recently Anna went to a psychologist with her problem. On what he answered that she needed to close the gestalt with her father. They say that because she has not forgiven her father, who abandoned her and her mother at a young age, it is adults who are attracted to her. As if to make up for that empty soul cell of fatherhood.
Indeed, Daddy had no involvement in Anna’s life at all. And more than once she told me how much it hurt her. Like, she would like to receive a father’s love. And everything becomes logical – a young man can’t give what an older man will.
And what is there to say, I think Anna should try a relationship with an older man. Why, if she is happy with him. And there are plenty of examples of couples with age differences getting along just fine.
